Nikki Ishihara.

When going on a date, ladies should take the initiative in doing something to help the guys out instead of just letting the guys do it.

I don't think this 'advice' work on first dates but several dates later.

• Know you timing. Don't make guys wait for you longer than 5 minutes. I would say ten minutes max if he waits in the house. It helps when you know how long it takes from his place to yours.

• Go dutch once in a while. Them guys are not made of money. Maybe be their sugar mommah once in a while if you feel like it.

• Give suggestions on where to go if he's out of ideas.

• Don't wear to much make up and all the time.

• Offer to pick him up. You need to check with him if his ego would get smashed if you drove him around.

• Go shop with him for games or whatever he is interested in. Only because he waits for you while you shop for your clothes. OR both of you go your own way and meet up after.

• Be attentive with the things he looks at so you have more choices when you need to buy him a present for an occassion.

• Give him a choice and don't always say "you have to.."