I doubt anyone was impatiently waiting for updates. Anyway, here it is.
After work, I went over to his place to find him gaming (Stalker –
something bout zombies and poltergeists and govt & private military).
He appears ‘normal’ and obviously didn’t know what was going to happen.
Here he started his normal greeting, “Sup~”.
I went over to his bed sat down facing him and told him we need to talk.
I waited for him to save the game and come over. He kept asking me ‘sup~’ and
while gaming.
Me: We need to talk..
Him: Can’t you talk while I play?
Me: No…
Him: Aww.. alright (saves game and came over)
I didn’t want to start blubbering even before I begin. So I talked to
him casually like “what did you do last night after you dropped me home” and
“how was the latest episode of House M.D”.
Eventually, I asked him why he said “If you already knew I didn’t want
to go in the first place stop forcing me” bit. And how it contradicts with the
“you have to make me want to go when I don’t want to go in the first place”.
Him: I meant it like invite my friends and stuff like that.
Me: So, you will never come to any of my family gatherings in the future
if only you are invited.
2 second silence.
Him: Maybe
How pissed was I when I heard that I started tearing again.
He realised it and thought nothing of it. Gave me a hug when I was lying
on his bed and resumed gaming. Fucking pissed yo!
I tried to calm myself a bit. Got up. Took my keys, phone and wallet.
Keys clanking got his attention.
Him: You going now?
Me: Yea
Took the money he gave me for the buffet and threw it on the table and
walked out.
Now this was the part where I think it’s so movie drama. On my way out,
he tried to grab a hold of me 3 times. First missed, second almost hand my hand
but I pulled away. Third time he grabbed my hand stronger and got me back to
his room.
We talked for a bit since only then he realised I was very bothered by
it. So in conclusion, the dinner felt like his dad’s office dinner gathering =
boring. He was not brought up to be so uber friendly on the first meet when my
cousins could just say things like “oh man.. Gary would say this taste like Indian sperm
(no offence)”. He did admit that he didn’t even try to make conversation.
I didn’t start up any ‘putting me down most of the time’ argument cause
I thought it wouldn’t really make any sense if I started that in the middle of
the talk. Maybe next argument =D Lawl
At the end of that, I was still mad at him though. So when we were done,
I just took my keys and left. All he said after that was, “C’mon….”.
Still bugged that it was a monthly/anniversary thing I felt that I
needed to get over it on the day. So I got him to come over that night.
Him: Are you sure you want me to come over? Maybe when u calm down a
bit.
Me: I’m fine now.
Him: Ok. I’m on my way then.
So we talked like nothing happened and he tried to solve the one face of
the rubix cube since he’s never done it, etc.
Last night, I asked him (teasingly), “were you scared when I got mad at
you?”
You know what he said?!??!
“Nop. I knew you’d realise you were overreacting eventually.”
Damn.
But I still stand on him being wrong. No matter if I overreacted or not.
If he becomes all hermit and spoilt on me again when I want him to go to a
function with me (something that would be important to me) – it’ll come back to
this again probably but less effect since I know what might happen.
