I have two close friends whom I'm very close with. We'd usually meet up at least once a week out somewhere doing something like eating xD
So! There is Alice who is around 25 yrs old.
Never had a boyfriend.
Currently joblesss but looking for one.
Usually low-self esteem cos' she's a bit ( ._. ) if you know what Kirby is trying to say. Not on the 'in-shape' part of the scale.
My favourite trait about her is that she can laugh and joke a lot.
Then there's Mun who is around 23 yrs old.
Her boyfriend broke up with her some time last month.
Currently doing her degree course.
Somewhat confident with herself depending on the situation.
My favourite trait about her is that she can bitch about me in front of my face and I can rely on her honesty.
These two girls have something in common...
They are boy hungry. In heat.. you can even say. I'm not single, and I don't even really know how to relate to them anymore. Out of the market for almost 4 yrs is like... yaa ... long.
Alice somehow has a desperate-for-a-guy attitude which I think can drive off any guy she likes. Plus she acts differently when she's near them (I heard). I read through a forum that confident people attracts others regardless of the way they look. Though I think, the society that we are living in here (country) are mostly shallow. I have seen a few skinny/fit guys with girlfirends whose got a fuller figure. BUT! the girls are usually the ones who has the face for it. It's like a face you could imagine on a thin person. I will bluntly say, Alice don't have that kind of face. Oh.. she's shallow too btw. Mun already told her. The type of guys that she likes are usually pretty boys. There was this one time! A guy (not so skinny, as well) was interested in Alice. But she wasn't interested in him cos' he wasn't good looking for her. I heard that guy ended up with someone else, eventually. Also, Alice sounded like she regretted it. She has initiative to work out or try do something about her weight (natural way). And always ends up quitting because she has no motivation or got lazy.
Mun currently got back into the market. And is usually heard chattering and wailing about 'no cute guys around' or 'basketball match has got lots of guys to look at' or 'she needs a rebound'. She's recently started dieting because she says fats are populating around her thighs. Before she was with her ex boyfriend, she was thin as well. And slowly couldn't care less or maybe just getting old. To clear things up, he didn't break up with her cos' she's fat. Nono.. They broke up because they usually argue about things - which she never bothers to elaborate on.
When the both of them starts talking about guys I just start my daydreaming and nod and probably look around. I really can't help.
-Alice just msg-ed me about basketball match in uni tmrw. I guess I'll have to go. She wouldn't go with Mun only if I didn't go. Funny-
I should charge my psp and put a show in so I could watch it tmrw. I'm not interested in basketball really. I dont understand jack shit. Gd thing my bf is allergic to sports xD He laughs involuntarily when someone asks him 'do you want to join us for badminton?' or 'want to go with us watch a game?' I got his allergies too.. CEPT.. for the sake of my friend's I'll still go even though I laugh first. Least I'm doing something rather than rolling in bed napping for 3 hrs.
Oh, I'm blogging about this is beacuse I cannot relate to them since I have never been in their situation before. So, I don't know what to say. Also, I doubt only being confident about their would work alone. That is, if all the single male population currently left in this country are jackasses. I did ask the girls before, if they would be interested in joining me if I signed up for gym. If I do go for it, I just want to tone parts of my body with a trainer. It's part of the process for getting myself ready for my photoshoot (after my doc tells me when I can get my braces off).
Other than that, got advice I could tell them?
