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Size: Large, Medium, Small Thu Aug 14, 08 11:25 PM | Category: All
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So I start to wonder as  I talk with and listen to girlfriends why there seems to be this universal theme of loving the wrong guy-- the bad boys, the Slim Shadys, and the Tommy Lees, the Kid Rocks of the free world. Why is it we go crazy for that guy that just got out of jail, prison, rehab, or somesort of institution? Seems that the good guys want to know the answer to these questions too. Plato talked about the seven wonders of the ancient world-- and now there is a updated version of the wonders of the new world--- but isnt this a wonder of all time???? Did ancient egyptians long for a bad boy to love them-- were the women of Rome turned on by the ruthlessness of the gladiators-- where were the good guys then? and did they get a woman to love them? Did religion keep women searching for a chaste love till marriage do us fornicate? Does it still today? Why do good guys not fill our lives with hope and wholeness? Is there a constant want in all women for the guy you know will break your heart? Even when he does stomp on your self esteem and give it back-- why do we always take them back? Is it the lack of family structure in your youth, or  your adolescence? And do men seek to be with their bad girl forever? Seems that they really just want a dirty girl in their bedroom, and a lady to keep on the frontlines at show to family. Does it boil down to self-esteem? Even people who know they are worthy of better-- deal with the unfit? Is it just that feeling of doing something dirty to fullfill some hormonal pleasure? Ladies  pick your heads up high and if a man is not fit for you-- admit it-- but do we ever move on???? How long has this animal instinct for the bad boy or the dirty girl been among us? Since the begining i would suspect. Good luck to all those who identify with this rant. And tell me-- how do we protect our children form this undeniable plague of bad decisions that has been clinging to us as long as we can remember,

Bad_Boys
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jaguarxjk (Darkness) Fri Aug 15, 08 03:31 AM

it's because of the hormonal pleasure than everyone seeks the bad boy or dirty girl it's instinct when you are near one of the both types you get the feeling that you've got a shot it's genetic so chill out


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sv_iv (Svetlana) Fri Aug 15, 08 07:15 AM

I think everyone has deep inside both parts:L the bad and the good. May be we like the bad guys because they are not afraid to show the bad side and we are in some way ashamed to show ours? I only suppose. I don't like bad guys. It is not natural to forget your good qualities too. But I don't belive in ideal guys too. It is impossible. We are human and have that animal component in our body too.

If a person is not afraid to show good parts as well as bad, it means he/she loves himself and I respect such kind of people.

Some people are atracted to bad guys because belive that they can change them. I know, this is impossible. The sooner we understand it the better

If you want to change the world, start by changing yourself
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totalprick Fri Aug 15, 08 04:40 PM

It's because women are stupid. Always have been, always will be. Everyone knows that. Duh.

:P

Seriously though, women want to be the most important thing in their man's life, and the less he has going for him the less competition there is for his attention in her eyes. This is absolutely wrong, but women believe it on some instinctive level regardless. Don't ask me why. I'm a guy with absolutely nothing going for me who STILL doesn't get the chicks, but that's because I call women on their bullshit like I just did there, and that puts me in the "alone for life" category. Might also have something to do with my total inability to ask a girl out. Sucks for me eh?

Oh well.

The Heretic King
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monti_84 Sat Aug 16, 08 11:43 AM

a liking for drama and too much watching soap operas may have something to do with the bad decisions of girls...the bad guy is exciting, refreshingly dangerous and new, at least in the beginning...

"To define is to limit" Oscar Wilde
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skandranon Fri Sep 19, 08 05:17 PM

Unfortinatly I do not have the answers you seek for I seek the same. Though I do not look for the " Dirty " girl, all I want to find is a good woman to marry, love, honer, trust. Also to have a child or two and spend the rest of my life with. If I have to have sex missionary style for the rest of life just have that good woman...... then so be it. Also I have trouble asking women out, but I always treat them like royalty. I know not any other way but my own.

" Your only as old as the woman you feel "
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pappuca Fri Oct 10, 08 10:05 AM

It's only naturally reaction!Every woman need a strong healthy man!And when you are a strong,you can be a bad and dangerous!Every man deeply instinctively know what woman seek!See behavior of any animal group.So we just an animal on high level that's all!P.S. It's good to know:At least bad guy can be are wonderful father!!!Good post and I voted!



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