aaah bless you sweetie one's past can haunt you all your life,trust is so important whether or not he told you the truth is history and to move forward you need to forgett or move on to other pastures sadly your decision
i have a very young and very possesive girlfriend who loves and adores me but checks up on me all the time and things dont always seem as she see's them we were both badly abused so bless you i hope it all works out your way big hug and good luck