hi, it is a hard one..a relationship is something that will need working at..sometimes it is good too talk other times it is not..the thing too remember is that we are all different, just because it is easier for us too stay silent or talk doesnt mean it is for the other person..i think it is learning to compromise and respecting the other persons feelings...i know this as i almost lost the man of my dreams by not compromising...good luck too you