Interesting blog as usual.
Here's what I think. God made man and woman to be paired up. You don't have to get married if it's the binding contract that scares you. Many couples work better just living together as partners. We don't have divorse here, but it doesn't put off people from getting separated and finding new relationships. Marriage or any relationship is a job. You're either going to work hard at it to make it the best job it could be or you quit and find a new one. The thing is, if you never really try hard to make it work you'll never really find a relationship that suits you.