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Happiness Outside The Cliché
Size: Large, Medium, Small Sun Aug 31, 08 11:11 AM | Category: Literature
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In a society where at least 50% of all marriages end up on divorce and the majority of the remaining couples want to cut each others fucking head off, I'm still amazed that people wants to get married.

 

What is it? Are we programmed to want it? Did society fuck that much with our heads that most people can not be happy by their own? Are we really that afraid of loneliness so we prefer to accept crap from another person just to avoid being lonely?

 

 

It is really painful and incredibly stupid to see how great girls with successful carriers and economical stability feel unhappy just because they don't have a dick to call their own. They dream of a wedding, the white dress and the immaculate veil although most of them had been fucked more times than the third world countries. Why they can not be complete by their own? Too many romantic movies finally shoot down their sanity?

 

And what about men feeling less masculine if they aren't someone's prince charming? If a man is not married within a certain age, so he must be gay! Society can not accept men who don't want to "plant" their seed and have children or god forbid!, a men who actually enjoys to be alone! That can't be!

 

I don't care if people wants to waste their life in unhappy marriages, but what I can not stand is the social agenda which turns single successful people into pariahs. These agendas are numerous, so to avoid a longer post, I'll talk about them later.

 

So maybe Chris Rock was right when in one of his live performances he said: "There are two options in life: single and lonely or married and bored". What I don't understand is why people automatically assume that loneliness is a bad thing...there can be happiness outside the cliché...or not?...and more important...Is happiness really inside the cliché?...the numbers say otherwise...what do you think?

 

 

 

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debsha Sun Aug 31, 08 12:22 PM

thats a tough one my friend...when in a relationship & things are going good its the best experience but when it turns too heartache we think what the hell did we waste our time for..being single can be lonely i miss the cuddles, falling asleep in someones arms etc...I feel that just because a person decides to be single & successful doesnt make them sad or weird...good post Monti

Be well & happy
Guest Sun Aug 31, 08 11:20 PM

this is a bad post cat , not good thing to live without marrige


debsha Mon Sep 1, 08 06:03 AM

its not a bad post, its just you dont agree with Monti that is all..we all have a right to be happy & if that is by being single then so be it..when you have been hurt it is hard to trust again..love unfortunately can not keep a marriage together there are a mixture of things which I think alot of people make that mistake of presuming

Be well & happy
Guest Fri Sep 12, 08 05:09 PM

some times being single is better , thats when yoou cant fined some one , some dam good one , but not all the time coz there is some good men waiting for some good women


debsha Mon Sep 15, 08 02:12 PM

if i was looking it wouldnt be in your direction thats for sure

Be well & happy
luthienessa Sun Aug 31, 08 12:29 PM

Well...If i may add something..don't forget to add love, i think that's the reason too..Why people get married, they want to make it official and declare it to the world...

But i think we are complete even if we are single..We don't need anyone to make us feel complete..If we feel that we need someone to make us complete...Something wrong with us..."NEVER SEARCH YOUR HAPPINESS IN OTHERS

WHICH WILL MAKE YOU FEEL ALONE,

RATHER SEARCH IT IN YOURSELF

YOU WILL FEEL HAPPY

EVEN IF YOU ARE LEFT ALONE"....I receive it by e-mail last week..(long comment huh..)

::Carpé diem ad multam noctum::
Guest Sun Aug 31, 08 11:21 PM

krap


luthienessa Tue Sep 16, 08 10:29 AM

for you who said it's a krap...why did you sign in as a guest? Are you affraid...YOU IDIOT CHICKEN....HAHAHA...

::Carpé diem ad multam noctum::
Zendex Sun Aug 31, 08 12:53 PM

whhahaha lol, yeah that's the biological, sociological clock ticking away with women ... can't help it either... beautifull post. VOTE


oriolmg Sun Aug 31, 08 01:16 PM

wenas k tal komo estas? nos escribimos a menudo como con aca xD


monosinmemoria Sun Aug 31, 08 01:44 PM

forever you blog rock metal the best.

salvarme de mi
vinhtran86 Sun Aug 31, 08 02:35 PM

no marriage --> no divorce any more :) just like brad and angelina,can't we?


Hafan Sun Aug 31, 08 02:45 PM

Kdy? je ?lověk ?enaty(vdaná),?ije sice jako pes,ale umírá jako ?lověk,kdy? je svodny(á)?ije sice jako ?lověk,ale umírá jako pes. Tak ?e si vlastně nevybere?!

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TheArcticSausage (PaRappa The Rapper) Sun Aug 31, 08 04:36 PM

Marriage is more than just love and wanting to spend the rest of your life with your partner. It also offers commitment for your partner and children, ie the vowls. When you marry you take on a whole world of responsibility. Maybe marriages fail because of the commitments aren't upheld. I don't think marriage is a bad thing but obviously appreciate it isn't for all people. I think if you are a religious person marriage is easier to understand.

Kick! Punch! It's all in the mind...
Guest Sun Aug 31, 08 11:10 PM

u r right my frind he is unbeliever , thats why he talk like that about marriage , god order us to do that to keep the human kind safe

look how many children without fathers , how many singl mothers , this is shit.


lorna23 Mon Sep 1, 08 12:48 AM

hahahahahahaha!!!

-from happy single mother

Look, I'm posting things! On the internets!!
Guest Fri Sep 12, 08 05:11 PM

are you !? i dont think so


mrdownloader Sun Aug 31, 08 04:43 PM

no woman no cry...

Share the blessings...
ms_fairy Sun Aug 31, 08 05:12 PM

Great subject my friend…

In my opinion… it not important to get married…

But sometimes people would like to have there own family…

they would like to have children's … especially the girls they dream to be mothers…

I think it nice feeling as I see my mother… I would like to be like her a great mother..

What is more, I don't think love is the reason to get married… because when you love some one you don't see his or her negative side and after you get married you shocked…

That this person is not suitable for you… and here the problems comes …

It might lead to divorce…

In dreams and love there are no impossibilities
Guest Sun Aug 31, 08 11:13 PM

sweet lady , when you get married with some one loves you , care about you and protect you , then you'll know the deferent



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