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Happiness Outside The Cliché
Size: Large, Medium, Small Sun Aug 31, 08 11:11 AM | Category: Literature
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In a society where at least 50% of all marriages end up on divorce and the majority of the remaining couples want to cut each others fucking head off, I'm still amazed that people wants to get married.

 

What is it? Are we programmed to want it? Did society fuck that much with our heads that most people can not be happy by their own? Are we really that afraid of loneliness so we prefer to accept crap from another person just to avoid being lonely?

 

 

It is really painful and incredibly stupid to see how great girls with successful carriers and economical stability feel unhappy just because they don't have a dick to call their own. They dream of a wedding, the white dress and the immaculate veil although most of them had been fucked more times than the third world countries. Why they can not be complete by their own? Too many romantic movies finally shoot down their sanity?

 

And what about men feeling less masculine if they aren't someone's prince charming? If a man is not married within a certain age, so he must be gay! Society can not accept men who don't want to "plant" their seed and have children or god forbid!, a men who actually enjoys to be alone! That can't be!

 

I don't care if people wants to waste their life in unhappy marriages, but what I can not stand is the social agenda which turns single successful people into pariahs. These agendas are numerous, so to avoid a longer post, I'll talk about them later.

 

So maybe Chris Rock was right when in one of his live performances he said: "There are two options in life: single and lonely or married and bored". What I don't understand is why people automatically assume that loneliness is a bad thing...there can be happiness outside the cliché...or not?...and more important...Is happiness really inside the cliché?...the numbers say otherwise...what do you think?

 

 

 

Song: Married With Children Theme

 

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dogtown1 (dog1) Mon Sep 1, 08 01:05 PM

KEEP EM COMIN M8. HEY WHY R DIVORCES SO EXPENSIVE? BECAUSE THEY R FUKIN WORTH IH IT. HA HA STAY COOL DOG1.

BETTER 2 BURN OUT THAN FADE AWAY B LUCKY
gringok Mon Sep 1, 08 01:59 PM

i think both options have good things.. Everyone is free of choise.. if you dont want get married dont be... the world is changing like the people is in it..

cheers


master_oly Mon Sep 1, 08 02:18 PM

Men and women were made one for the other,they can't leave alone :)

Just be yourself ;). If you wear a mask you wont have real friends !
monti_84 Mon Sep 15, 08 03:21 PM

I strongly disagree with you, although It is true no man is an island and that human beings are social creatures, I do believe that one can be happy without a couple and I am certain that one can be happy without a marriage...

"To define is to limit" Oscar Wilde
MaeLin Mon Sep 1, 08 02:33 PM

We all want to be normal, in social terms, that is, we want to fit with the rest of the society. To be normal, you must act like the rest of the society. Society has it's moral code all must respect. Being married is within the parametars of that code. We are psychologicly forced to get married, and as award we expect safe and calm life, without bigger problems (at least in that aspect of life).

(Or shorter version: society is to blame for making us to get married)

I don't understand why people change in marriage and do they really change, for you can live with someone for years and than get married and find out he/she is not the right person for you.


RichieBones Mon Sep 1, 08 02:44 PM

I've been with my lady for over TEN yrs now , yep , it is up an down , but i love her , i don't need her that's something else , ?


avelansh Mon Sep 1, 08 03:15 PM

I have read it :)


totalprick Mon Sep 1, 08 04:01 PM

great choice for theme song.

The Heretic King
startint Tue Sep 2, 08 05:14 PM

Hello,there is a good post and it have material to think and discus about.I em not familiar with this theme ,but i can say that people have diferent reasons to marry,some do it by inertia maybe..

(if there is mistakes in the words,sorry my english is not very good))...


amanj3 Tue Sep 2, 08 05:17 PM

nice!!!! you'r blogg is beautiful


fanydog Tue Sep 2, 08 05:17 PM

You are right in almost everything they say.

compliments



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