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Happiness Outside The Cliché
Size: Large, Medium, Small Sun Aug 31, 08 11:11 AM | Category: Literature
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In a society where at least 50% of all marriages end up on divorce and the majority of the remaining couples want to cut each others fucking head off, I'm still amazed that people wants to get married.

 

What is it? Are we programmed to want it? Did society fuck that much with our heads that most people can not be happy by their own? Are we really that afraid of loneliness so we prefer to accept crap from another person just to avoid being lonely?

 

 

It is really painful and incredibly stupid to see how great girls with successful carriers and economical stability feel unhappy just because they don't have a dick to call their own. They dream of a wedding, the white dress and the immaculate veil although most of them had been fucked more times than the third world countries. Why they can not be complete by their own? Too many romantic movies finally shoot down their sanity?

 

And what about men feeling less masculine if they aren't someone's prince charming? If a man is not married within a certain age, so he must be gay! Society can not accept men who don't want to "plant" their seed and have children or god forbid!, a men who actually enjoys to be alone! That can't be!

 

I don't care if people wants to waste their life in unhappy marriages, but what I can not stand is the social agenda which turns single successful people into pariahs. These agendas are numerous, so to avoid a longer post, I'll talk about them later.

 

So maybe Chris Rock was right when in one of his live performances he said: "There are two options in life: single and lonely or married and bored". What I don't understand is why people automatically assume that loneliness is a bad thing...there can be happiness outside the cliché...or not?...and more important...Is happiness really inside the cliché?...the numbers say otherwise...what do you think?

 

 

 

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abood_jarrar (abood) Tue Sep 2, 08 05:38 PM

"""""no marriage"""" i will say

Be Palestinian or Die Trying
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face666 Tue Sep 2, 08 07:06 PM

nice subject

i stell young and i dont think about it , ithink it well hapen automatacly as i hope saw ,bay the way iam form middel east :)


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razz994 Tue Sep 2, 08 07:32 PM

Yeah I think marriage is crap too. Yet i am not alone, but deal with these tribulations u speak of in this very interesting post. My girlfriend\wife is in such a hurry to get married. Problem is we haven't even figured out how to by entirely happy together. With that said entirely is definately stretching hope. LOL. I set this as the D-Day. Meaning, the day I and her are as close to entirely happy as we can be, then we shall discuss marriage, but till then. "I Don't Think So!"

Take Care! good post


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theraindew Tue Sep 2, 08 07:42 PM

marriage is an essential part of life for sure. but judging people by their marital status is crap. And people judging themselves by their marital status is also crap I mean, why should a guy who isn't married feel that he is lonely and one who is married feel he is bored?? hm. may be i'll know when I get married!! but certainly I don't feel lonely now though!


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[Guest]Sku11Fuck Tue Sep 2, 08 08:07 PM

I.m sorry to say it, but i've been with my girl for 10 years. We are not married and we have a awesome 5 year old boy. We are together because we are best friends, and we LOVE each other.Now i know people that are together or married because it is not easy to live on one income????????????

And hay be lucky we even have a choice, in some countrys you marry who you're told to marry!!!!!!!!!!!!

With marriage you don't have to worry about S.T.D's as long as your with someone that is faithful to you and you alone.For men it's Pussy when ever they need it, because hunting for pussy is hard even though women out number men at least 5 to 1. And as far as i'm concerned when you get married your sex life does not die, and if it does then the two of you are NOT meant for each other...............


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untasiam Tue Sep 2, 08 10:42 PM

Well.. Marriage is about love & understanding each other. If we doesn't 100% trust our life partner, then i think we better be "single and lonely" forever..

-untasiam-
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pronaholtz Wed Sep 3, 08 12:54 AM

as in nature some things seem fine and innofensive.

but may harbour some danger .if wer come to near .

roses is beautiful, but they have many needles.

with time everything will deteriorate if we do the maintenance.

loneliness is a loyal companion and presente.

can be better than a men or women so near and so far.

better alone has bad compagnie .

a couple is a real quest , not a game.

never have say it is easy ...

nothing is easy. and request always attention ( looking for ) .

live is has a chocolat box , we never know whath is really inside .

search the treasure need time .

just wait and see in the right way .

hard subbject but good post .

human can be complicaded more time too .

i agree and vote.

We can feel that we cannot see .
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gazdoc Wed Sep 3, 08 01:10 AM

Hi Monti

where did you get the statistics that 50% of the marriages end in divorce, I dont think so, at least in India maybe about 5-10% marriages would end in divorce.

Ennnnnnnnjoy
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monti_84 Mon Sep 15, 08 03:24 PM

The statistics are mainly from western societies, the numbers are similar for my country Costa Rica, The United States of America and South America. Some European countries have similar rates as well...you can check out this statistics in this web:

http://www.divorcerate.org/

For example for US it says: "50% percent of first marriages, 67% of second and 74% of third marriages end in divorce, according to Jennifer Baker of the Forest Institute of Professional Psychology in Springfield, Missouri.”

They have statistics for other regions as well if you are interested. The case of some Eastern societies is different because the cultural and religious aspects are a lot more rigid and the social pressure for being married and the social shame for being divorced is greater than in other societies.

"To define is to limit" Oscar Wilde
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mmra62 Wed Sep 3, 08 04:13 AM

I think its very good !


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piper05 Wed Sep 3, 08 06:11 AM

Well I think it's a matter of choice,. Marriage is a sacred thing, you shouldn't take it for granted. So what if the society thinks you are unfortunate for being single? Halerr!!! As long as you're happy, live free (huh???, lol).. Here in my country there's no such thing as divorce so if you decided to get married and sooner or later you felt bored then that's it.. there's no turning back. Don't worry I am myself confused..Good post!

"Enjoy what you have rather than desiring what you don't have. Just dreaming about nice things is meaningless; it is like chasing the wind."

-Ecclesiastes 7:9

"...certain things may catch your eyes, but pursue only those that capture your heart.."
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monti_84 Mon Sep 15, 08 03:20 PM

Thanks a lot for your comment and vote...I don′t agree at all with Ecclesiastes 7:9, because dreams become goals and goals become realities, at least for the persons brave enough to seek their dreams, so dreaming is not meaningless if you convert dreams into actions...the kind of thinking in that verse leads to conformity and conformity is success′ greatest enemy...

"To define is to limit" Oscar Wilde

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