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Wonderful post, thanks for inviting me to your blog. I want my girls independent, with a solid education and money in the bank, a good career and prenup. Before they get married.

If happiness cannot be fulfilled within, it will never be filled by another. It is never wise to base emotions upon another person. Easy to say but much harder to do.

For me, well it's a gift to God to be married with someone you really love..

Coz, if accept the girl that God's plan for you, that's the great one for him,

And that is acceptance!!

I think everyone is right in their own way. I mean we are all different and our opinions are based on our own lives and experiences. Some people are happy being single. While others are happy to be married. Yes, many marriages end in a divorce; however, that does not mean the marriage was bad for them. It is an important lesson to learn in life, and it makes you the person you are today. For me, I believe you should love yourself first before you are able to love someone else enough to marry them. If you are getting married, because you feel you can change someone for the better...well that is for the wrong reason and will probably end before you leave the church. lol I guess to sum this up, I am saying that some people are better off single...while others are better off married. By the way, I am set to marry a cute English man soon so my opinion may be a little bias. ;)

Interesting blog as usual.

Here's what I think. God made man and woman to be paired up. You don't have to get married if it's the binding contract that scares you. Many couples work better just living together as partners. We don't have divorse here, but it doesn't put off people from getting separated and finding new relationships. Marriage or any relationship is a job. You're either going to work hard at it to make it the best job it could be or you quit and find a new one. The thing is, if you never really try hard to make it work you'll never really find a relationship that suits you.

Marriage is bull. It's a false promise no one really keeps. You promise yourself to someone and then send the rest of your life regreting it. Looking at other people and wondering what life would be like with them. I refer to stay single so that there is no question. If a relatinship is dead I can just walk away. No paper work, no guilt trips, just a clean cut. If love is true between two people, you don't need a freaking ring and some papers to remind you that that's the person your with for the rest of your life, you'll just be with them. That should be enough. Marriage is a business. A contract binding people into a proposition. When it all comes down to it, people see it as a contract stateing how much they get when it's all over.

great post bud

nice blog nice thought

First and foremost if you do not love yourself it is kind of hard to share that with anyone. Love does not mean that you will be loved in return, it simply requires that you are willing to try. Marrriage is not for everyone , but for some it is a wonderful experience. Think of it as someone who is willing to put up with you despite the faults we have, and will try to be there until the end. Sometimes this works out and sometimes not. One thing I can tell you is of its not for you dont do it. Longevity in anything requires patience ,understanding,empathy and determination. People now are not willing to work out their problems as soon as thier is trouble, run for the divorce court. You work at relationships just like a job, you may get a promotion, demotion or might transfer to another department, yet you still work for the same company.