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Happiness Outside The Cliché
Size: Large, Medium, Small Sun Aug 31, 08 11:11 AM | Category: Literature
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In a society where at least 50% of all marriages end up on divorce and the majority of the remaining couples want to cut each others fucking head off, I'm still amazed that people wants to get married.

 

What is it? Are we programmed to want it? Did society fuck that much with our heads that most people can not be happy by their own? Are we really that afraid of loneliness so we prefer to accept crap from another person just to avoid being lonely?

 

 

It is really painful and incredibly stupid to see how great girls with successful carriers and economical stability feel unhappy just because they don't have a dick to call their own. They dream of a wedding, the white dress and the immaculate veil although most of them had been fucked more times than the third world countries. Why they can not be complete by their own? Too many romantic movies finally shoot down their sanity?

 

And what about men feeling less masculine if they aren't someone's prince charming? If a man is not married within a certain age, so he must be gay! Society can not accept men who don't want to "plant" their seed and have children or god forbid!, a men who actually enjoys to be alone! That can't be!

 

I don't care if people wants to waste their life in unhappy marriages, but what I can not stand is the social agenda which turns single successful people into pariahs. These agendas are numerous, so to avoid a longer post, I'll talk about them later.

 

So maybe Chris Rock was right when in one of his live performances he said: "There are two options in life: single and lonely or married and bored". What I don't understand is why people automatically assume that loneliness is a bad thing...there can be happiness outside the cliché...or not?...and more important...Is happiness really inside the cliché?...the numbers say otherwise...what do you think?

 

 

 

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Einst Fri Sep 5, 08 05:26 PM

well it's all goes back how the person's perception/thought about marriage...


kuklee (kuki) Sat Sep 6, 08 08:03 AM

nice topic monti i think u r right m completely agree wid u what's a need of marriage i dont understand i can say alone happily and u know m running form my marriage from last 4 years dont know how many more i can wish me best of luck

kuklee
joolyet22_sansairo71 Sun Sep 7, 08 02:49 AM

hi

i tell every body never ever live within fold of a man

love is blind
koceto_cska Sun Sep 7, 08 08:38 AM

Nice post, I voted!

Lieutenant General Konstantin
logan_fre Fri Sep 12, 08 12:35 AM

Man don't be such a downer! Just kidding. I am married and happy, but I know others who aren't married and just as happy. It is just your personal preference. I do agree it is wrong to say there is something wrong with you if you aren't married by a certain age. And yes Hollywood is to blame.


sv_iv (Svetlana) Fri Sep 12, 08 04:48 PM

I read your post in the morning and thought near all day about it. What can I say? I had an unhappy marriage in my life, but I think it was because of that social cliche. All friends got married and I was alone. I thought it is my fault and married the man who was saying that he loves me for 5 years. I thought love is not so important in a family. now I understand that it was wrong. I don't feel lonly. I am a person who is always busy and don't have enough time for everything I would like to do. I asked myself would I want to try again to be married and couldn't answer. I think people are getting borred with marriage, because some of them think that the ring gives them owner's right over another one nd they forget to look after themselves. They don't work anymore for their relationship to be fresh and strong. They start to wear old clothes at home and behave not in the best way, because if he/she is their wife/husband, they won't leave and will tolerate them. If there is big love, you better marry to make your partner understand how much you care, but don't stop working on relationship, because love is a hard work.

Good luck to you and I wish you will meet one day that girl, which will make you to forget this post and ideas written here.

If you want to change the world, start by changing yourself
S_P_I_D_E_R Wed Sep 24, 08 11:37 AM

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S_P_I_D_E_R Sat Oct 4, 08 11:49 AM

hello all


STAINLESSTILL Mon Oct 13, 08 07:02 AM

Friend ! Marriages used to last before it was genetical modified look back stone age time it was very important,but its your choice to get married or not .You can stay with someone without rings attached just the same like those with rings but see we have to share some of the wealth so it should be done in church you see.

Respect
Ragnarock3 (Ragnarock) Wed Oct 22, 08 01:56 PM

Very good post.

I think that maybe people still marri because they don′t know they partner very well, and when they do....they divorce. If them were a bit more intelligent, they will know each other first WELL, and then, if they like each other, get married...and not in the other way



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