jacob's BLOG

This is a blog for all the single guys who just don't have very much luck with girls. I am an expiernced dater and have seen it all and would like to share some of my wisdom to some of you less fortunate guys out there. These are the key fundamentals that i will be teaching you in this blog 1)Location 2)self confidence 3)recon work 4)what to say 5)eye contact 6)& closing. First on are list is location. You will hear this every where Location, Location, Location. It's the foundation of all relationships. Most women are looking for that romantic cutesy meet-Q story but face it who has time for that in today's busy rush. Most guys go to the bars and clubs for girls or even the gym no these are booty call places where you pick up a VD's or some STD's. Most studies show that when two people meet in a bar or club its strictly a drunken physical attration which may go one for weeks but not thing more they mostly end in a cluster f**K. The places where a sucessful relationship can be started are bookstores, coffee shops, and other slow pace location. The women you meet at these places are intellegant, sincere, caring, and have self respect. These are key aspects of a women you need to find. That way if things get serious you know they're willing to stick it out threw the rough times. The second is self confidence. Women are like a female lion the can spot the weakest memember of the heard. Self confidence is everything, a women wants a guy who is willing to take charge, be the man, and wear the pants. For example say your out on a date everything is going great couldnt be better dumb luck she spots a friend from across the restraunt and waves her over. Women and their friends are a sisterly bond no secrets between them they all stick together. Approval from her friends is the most important thing you can possibly do. Just remember friends equal approval and offical boyfriend status. Most guys will think its the family thats the way in but your wrong maybe not in some situations but in over 60% of cases this is true. A women wants a guy that wont sit to the side as she talks she wants you to contribute to the conversation. Take charge be a lion and take what you want, dont let her introduce you to them. You need to let them say hi and all that for maybe a few seconds and say hi im so and so if she bets you to the punch listen open your ears listen to how she introduces you that means it all. Self confidence is the most important thing you can learn from this post. Also don't be afraid to make her laugh women look for that in a guy. the third in this lesson is recon before you approch her do a little recon notice the liitle things. Such as the book she is reading or what she is wearing, different outfits tell you the women situation. Also her hair style if its up then it means she fast paced and has things to do, down and straiten she is patient and has time, curled or wavie she is upbeat and easier to approach, so on and so forth. The next lesson is what to say use what you've learned from the recon step. If she was reading a book bring it up, ask about it. Show your able to carry on a meaningful and intellecutal conversation. Don't brag! Women don't want an aragent cocky guy try. Try to mention stuff about yourself suddley. Ask a lot of questions about her and remember LISTEN!!! Pay attention guys dont pretend to be listening becasue its the fastest way to screw yourself. If she ask you a question think it threw don't say the first thing that pops in your head. If she is really interested in your opinion she'll wait to hear your response trust me. the fifth lesson is eye contact dont gaze at her chest or watch her lips move look her in the eye dead on. This show's everything about you 1. your actually listening 2. your aware of her prescence 3. it's appealing to a women. The final lesson for today's post is clossing the deal. Remember step 2 when closing be the alpha-male and take charge. Ask for her number make sure you also remember the conversation and find when the best times is to call her and dont be over excited and call two hours later. Hell you could even wait for her to call. Make sure when your going for the number and the exit eye contact still offer to walk her to her car or open the door for her, show her shrivery isn't dead yet. And finally we come to the actual departure this i cant really happen it's one of those things that just depends on the conversationt that just took place. I personally side with "I enjoyed your company today, thank you and I will give you a call this weekend or so to make some arrangment". It all depends on your confidence on how well the conversation went. Well I hope this was some help to some of you unlucky guys out there. Feel free to comment me on how you felt about this or a topic you would like to learn about or advice on a situation you may already be in.