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It's a hard knock life!
Size: Large, Medium, Small Mon Nov 26, 07 04:12 AM | Category: All
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Well, this is my first attempt at blogging, but I must let my frustrations out somehow. 

 

How hard can life get......I'm 35, married with kids, have to commute an hour each way to work PLUS taking 17 credit hours at the University --majoring in Electrical Engineering.  The only way for me to do this is to ask work to split up my off days (meaning I work the weekends) in order to get days off in the middle of the week to attend class.  I have no time off.

 

On top of this, I am also a Union Steward for my office (which sucks, but that is for more entries), prominent in the Boy Scouts so I can spend more time with my son, and a member of several other organizations.

 

My work in community college earned me a full ride scholarship to the University, BUT, I must take at least 12 hours of classes, and I must maintain a 3.5 GPA to retain the scholarship.  I have never had a problem before with keeping my grades up, but I can feel myself burning out.  I cant allow myself to fail at school, cause then my scholarship is gone.  I dont have the choi needed to pay for school out of pocket, and I refuse to go further in debt.  I cant quit work for obvious reasons, like mortgage, credit cards, wife, and son.  I can in good conscience quit school either.  I am viewing the upcoming degree as a safety net should shit hit the fan at work.  Everyone who has recently or is currently employed knows how the job market and economy has been going.

 

Anyone out there got suggestions?


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Qmei (果冻小布丁) Tue Nov 27, 07 12:49 AM

Maybe life is so tired.


dudemcman Tue Nov 27, 07 08:44 AM

Well, here is how I see it, you can't quit your job or school, so that leaves one option, dump the wife and the rest will fall into place. (just kiding) But seroiusly you have alote on your plate and I lift my hat off to you. But as you said you need to cut back on something because if your starting to burnout trust me its best to loose 1 thing than to crash and loose everything, but I'm sure you've thought about it and there's nothing you think that can be given up and if thats really the case well suck it up and good luck.


ravenrue (Ruel) Tue Nov 27, 07 10:54 AM

You are one lucky guy to have a full ride, even though it's stressful. Maybe u can cut back on hard classes at the university? Maybe take two important classes for ur course and then have the other three classes be some BS class.

Another thing you could do is dump the extra curricular activities that you have with your son. Talk with him and tell him it will only be for a few years. My mom is a single parent who got her masters when I was 8 and still worked as a nurse full time. It was hard for her and I but after those two years We had alot more time.

A talk with the family that you will cut back on ur regular activites (except when it helps relieve stress like going out to eat, camping, or sleep) so that you can carry the school and work loads for a few years. I mean if u are forced to have a certain credit hours to be full time then being at the university should only take 4 years, and since u went to a comunity college, then that should leave 3 to 2 years left.

You can do it. You've already gotten this far. (just don't piss ur wife off :P)

-rue


Espada Fri Nov 30, 07 08:11 PM

Social beings make life so hard for themselves any time they get a chance... sad, mate, very sad.


maschine9999 (Chris) Sat Aug 15, 09 10:36 AM

i vote

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