i,m not the one that expert in loves but here it is ,it comes from my dad... n guess what ,ma mom is one of the hottest..hehe
How To Be A Better
Couple
10 steps to enjoying each other better...
1. Be realistic about
each other.
Don't try to turn ur partner into something he or she is not. Let's face it,
guys-there's only 1 Pamela Anderson in the world, and even she has had her
implants removed! Give ur gal a break and understand that her physical
appearance is NOT going to change overnite with the help of a few facials ! or
treat ments. And ladies, Brad Pitt has already been taken, so u're gonna have
to do with what ur guy is like! Chill out, love each other for what u are.
There is more to ur partner than what meets the eye.
2. Always talk things
out.
Now guys, I know this is not ur fave pastime or mode of resolving issues, but u
know what? This works with the gals. Don't make assumptions about each other's
feelings. Learn to xpress urself better so that ur partner undrstands what u're
angry about, or hurt about, or even happy about! When u stop talking to each
other from the heart, it's the beginning of the end.
3. Do stuff together.
Make an effort to do things together. Do some sports or involve urselves in
some shared activities; something both of u enjoy or are interested in. It
could be as simple as watching movies together, or jus strolling hand-in-hand
down Orchard Road. Watch soccor with him once in a while though the green patch
on TV puts u to sleep in 3 seconds. And guys, do give in if ur gal asks for
another day at window-shopping, rather than suggest that she go out with her
girlfriends for "that sort of activities" instead. If u're spending
more time with ur friends rather than with ur partner, it's a warning sign that
u're drifting apart!!!
4. Meet each other
halfway.
If he agrees to throw out that rotten T-shirt with the "The_Rock"
print, u shouldn't kick up much of a fuss if he asks u to keep ur room tidy.
There's gotta be a little giving and taking in a relationship, so learn to meet
each other halfway.
5.Show ur love
Buy her flowers or candy or perfume everynow and then, even if u have been together
for 5years. It's wonderful to continue showing someone that u care for him or
her. Cook him a special meal, paint him a Valentine's Day card. Knit him
mini-socks he can't wear ( like for decoration purposes => ), buy him a
packet of milk for breakfast, or pack his wardrobe for him...so he knows u can
still be romantic and loving despite having been together for quite a while.
6. Respect each
other.
Stop making jokes about her hair or skin, or whatever it is u love to laugh at.
Ask urself if she thinks if its funny. And if he has an inferiority complex
about his height, stop ogling at tall guys and make him feel worse! Love is
about respecting each other's feelings and being sensitive to each other at all
times.
7. Bury the past.
Stop bringing up the past. Gals..don't bring up the happy things about u and ur
ex to ur guy, it would jus make him jealous or unhappy. And guys, don't talk
about the happy times that u had with ur ex or mention about her in ur every
other sentence as it would make ur gal feel un-happy and she might think that u
saying all this b'cos u are gonna get back with ur ex or not interested in her
anymore.< /P>
8. Sit on ur jealousy.
All of us go thru' spells of insecurity at the beginning of the relationship,
but don't translate that insecurity into jealousy. If u're gonna go through ur
partner's mail and cupboard, and eavesdropping on conversations, u know
something is wrong - with u!!! Jealousy is like a poison that slowly spreads
thru' the relationship before finally killing it. Trust ur partner; love has to
have trust in it.
9. Keep ur commitments to
each other.
If ur partner is standing u up all the time and cancelling dates and breaking
promises, u need to talk! If u're in a relationship, make ur partner ur priority
and don't disappoint them if u can help it. It's really terrible when someone
promises to take u to dinner, and then calls to cancel it. Don't make promises
u can't keep. If ur partner starts to feel that he/she is not important enough
to u, u may jus lose him/her.
10.
Be honest.
Honesty is not scowling at how awful she looks first thing in the morning, or
telling him that he has the biceps of a fly~! When we say "be
honest", we mean expressing ur feelings clearly, not being bitingly cruel.
When u're hurt, say so, and when u're angry, tell him/her, w/o getting
hysterical. If u can't be honest with ur partner, who can u be honest with?
?Love is also about honesty, and a relationship where no honesty exists
probabl! y isn't worth it!
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