The way that I see things is that nothing is as simple as it may appear. You have to observe, take notes and learn from what you see.
Take for instants, GIRLS!! Literally every girl that you come across is completely different. Everyone says that confidence is the key to scoring a chick. But from what I noticed in my life is that, that is sometimes true. Sure you have to have confidence to just go up to a girl and talk to them. But you don’t have to so much that you think to highly of yourself or you’ll have a fling for a short time. And nothing will come of it from there.
You have to be able to talk to the girl that you are pursuing. Not just from the moment you walk up to her and all you are trying to do is get into her pants. You have to be able to talk to her without that being 100% in your head. Girls that I have came across, like to talk. It doesn’t matter what it is, just talk to them.
Find out what her interests are, then if you have similar interest then carry on with the conversation. But if you find yourself talking about something that you have no idea of what is going on, then easily wean yourself out it. Then you are just losing a losing battle! If you have exactly the same interest, then please proceed on what you are doing. Because girls don’t really like guys that fake the funk. Due to the fact, she knows what you’re going for before you even know what you’re going for.
Yeah girls are pretty much psychic when it comes to guys intentions upon first meeting. When she looks at you as you’re looking at her, she is most of the time are thinking about the same thing that you are. “I wonder if he’s good in the sack?” But she doesn’t proceed with that. Unless she is really plastered, then you’re a shoe in. But make sure your not going to regret it when you wake up in the morning! She’s trying to see if you are up to their standards when it comes to being a mate. So when she starts to talk to you, she is trying to weed out your stupidity as cunning as they can. When they see that you aren’t as stupid as she may have presumed, then she will continue the conversation. You’ll have a few drinks and just talk the night away.
But the best advice if you are intentionally trying to land a life mate but push. Let everything work in its own course. Because, if you force the issue of sex when she doesn’t want it, then you have lost her with all that work that you did. Just as the night is about to end, ask for her number (And Call her too). And of course give her yours. Nothing a she will hate more is given her number to a dude that isn’t going to call. Then right after you get her number, give her a hug, a slight kiss on the cheek, and say your good-byes.
Two to Three days later give her a call, if she hasn’t already called you. If you did things right your first encounter, she will. When you guys first speak keep it to no more than an hour. Any longer, you will just run out of things to talk about down the road. When you’re done talking to her, ask her out on a date. Be sure to see when she is available to do so. You don’t want to interrupt anything that she has already had planned. But an open date, breakfast, lunch or dinner. It really doesn’t matter. Most prefer dinner. But be different; take her to breakfast or lunch first. To like Taco Bell, McDonalds, or whatever you choose. Then the second date should be the big dinner.
The reason I suggest breakfast or lunch first is you don’t want to pull out all the stops on your first date. Because your impression was already made when you two first met. A lunch or something give her a view or you other side. Don’t bring flowers or anything, hold that till the second date
Sure she loves to be given flowers, candy, jewelry and the finer things but she doesn’t want them when you guys first meet. It smothers her and she will pull away. Play it cool and when you know that the relation goes for like three months or so, and then buy her something nice. That will show her that you truly care for her. And she will return the favor!
