1. Make her notice you! If she does, then the easy part is over.
2. Take your time. If she gives you her number, perfect, but don't beg for it. Call her when you get her
number, but not too much. Some days, let her have a chance to call you! This'll show that you guys
are willing to keep in contact.
3. Compliment her when she does something smart or kind. Don't overuse compliments though!
Compliment her too much and she'll roll her eyes again and again at your attempts at sweet talk.
4. Make sure you know things about her. You don't necessarily have to be her best friend, but do be a
friend. Let her talk about her feelings with you, and in return try to do the same. But don't pour
yourself out. You'll seem weak to her. Unless of course, she asks you to pour yourself, then go ahead.
But know how she first felt about you, what her favorite color is and what her favorite book was when
she was little. Things like that. But don't over ask.
5. Be friends with her family. Being a family friend is a good start. You don't want to get off the wrong
foot with her family. They sometimes have the power to change her mind if they don't like you. Visit
her family and start a good conversation. Nothing like how's the weather. Talk about something you
think would interest them. Read the front page of the paper so that you will know what is going on in
this world. Then you will have something to talk about and you will not have to try too hard!! Relax!
6. Get her a small gift. Don't get her the world on its knees. Get her something like a small ring, unless
she hates jewelry and can't stand the feel of metal on her skin. Maybe she would like some flowers or
a pretty bookmark. If you don't know what she would like, try and figure it out. Here are some
meanings women might attribute to various objects--
7. Ring-Commitment
8. Hand-Drawn Portrait-Commitment
9. Stuffed toy--Puppy Love
10. Flowers: You think she's pretty.
11. (Note) Do NOT get her something that might scare her or that she might not need or even like (unless
of course she has a collection of things like spoons, marbles, stuff like that.)
12. Meet her friends. Meeting her friends means you're a step up! This means she's willing to accept you
into her life. Don't push her to meet them though, let her one day ask "Would you like to meet my
friends?" whereupon you quickly answer "Sure!"(If she has friends that are women, do not, NOT,
become extreme friends with them, be polite, but not extremely friendly, as this will make her think
you might cheat on her with her friends.
