1
Why
Internet Dating?
I mean, there are hundreds of ways to meet women and they are all great and have their advantages.
● Speed dating
● Singles events
● Through friends
● Offline dating agencies
● Personal ads
● In bars and nightclubs
● Taking courses at local colleges
● And the list goes on and on.....
BUT
Internet dating is KING and here is why.
It's cheap
It's quick
It's fun
It's simple to use
There are thousands of women in your area now online. And the biggest reason of all, IT'S A
GREAT PLACE TO LEARN WITHOUT THE FEAR OF FACE TO FACE REJECTION!
Like it or not, rejection is part of the dating process, even the hottest most successful guys with
dating get rejected more times then they hear a yes. In someways dating is a numbers game, but
most men have TERRIBLE odds when it comes to dating. My job in this book is to lower the odds
for you and make you more successful with the type of women you want to date...
...and I know you're busy, that's why Internet dating is great. Put up a profile, tweak it a bit until it
sounds good and away you go. It's your own automated dating machine thats up 24/7 attracting
women around the clock. You don't have to be attractive, rich or anything like that. In fact, the guys
I know who are most successful with women don't have a lot of money and they are just average
looking men, nothing special about them, except they know what women want, they behave and
hold themselves in ways women find attractive.
2
Find
2 Online Dating Sites To Put Your Online
Profile On
There are THOUSANDS of online dating sites out there, so what one's best for you? For starters,
the best idea is to cast a wide net and put your profile on at least 2 online dating sites. What I've
been doing recently is I've been putting my profile on 1 large online dating site and one niche dating
site. So what sites should you be using? I really recommend you use FriendFinder and
AdultFriendFinder (if you are looking for erotic chat or sex ;)).
3
How
To Write A Killer Online Profile With Samples!
The MOST IMPORTANT aspect of any successful Internet dating venture is your online profile.
Personally, I use 2 profiles to attract dates.
The bad boy profile which attracts a certain more wilder person, and the nice guy profile that
attracts the nice girls you would be proud to bring home to mother.
If you are the more cocky and confident person, use the "bad boy" profile, but make sure you are the
same person online as you are offline or it will be a waste of time. You must also have a photo on
your profile! If they give you room to put up more then one photo, don't do it, just put one good
photo up of you.
Step 4:
Learn To Write Effective Email Followups
Ok, so you're online, you're searching for profiles of other women and you find a few you want to
email, what next? The first email is crucial. You have to remember, women are getting sometimes
hundreds of emails a day, so you have to stand out straight away! Just like in marketing, your
headline should be eye grabbing!
The best way to do this is to mention something about her profile in your headline. I've made the
mistake of writing things like "hey there" in the subject heading and it's really not a good idea. If in
the photo she puts on her profile, she's wearing something unique comment on it.
Example Subject Headings:
● Where did you get that necklace from?
● I don't think you're going to like me....
● That top you are wearing is....
● You're lucky I emailed you!
etc...
Things like that get a womans attention when she's reading her email. Thats the first mistake most
people make, the second one is they write too much in their first email! They write a whole life
story. Just keep it short and sweet.
Here is an example first email I use.
Heya,
If you want to have an enthralling chat/get to know me better my msn address is
myemailaddress@here.com so that's the place to do it, or even better, over a crownie or 3 :) I live in
Robertson, near sunnybank plaza/garden city. I'm off to try and find a place that does a decent
oysters kilpatrick, so have a good night.
Cheers
your name, your profile id name
P.S. make a funny comment here about her profile/suggest if she doesn't have msn to either
download it or buy you a beer and meet up instead.
Notice I don't try and get an email relationship happening, you need to hook your date quickly. You
need to get from one step to the other quickly. If she emails you back and says she doesn't have msn
or any instant chat device, ask her for her phone number. It's that simple. Don't become email
buddies!
Dont waste your time! Sign up on AdultFriendFinder or FriendFinder
online and meet girls offline ;) Good luck and HAVE FUN!
Links:
– http://adultfriendfinder.com/go/g980269 register
on AdultFriendFinder
– http://friendfinder.com/go/g1025113 register
on FriendFinder
