I chat with my friend the other day. He was confused because he's falling in
love with someone from my place that I live right now, which is Jakarta. My friend
lives in Bali by the way...
He was confused because he has a girl friend in Bali as well..So now he has
2 GF at different places..Bravo....
He never meets his new GF (can you believe that? I do..) He met her from
virtual world...Chat world! Yeah...People can fall in love from this virtual
world...Even they never see each other...But the feeling inside take part in
this situation (for you who agree with me raise your hand please!)
His new GF knew that he have a GF in Bali..But she's keep going with
him...Oh I really really don't understand this..Is it LOVE? Don’t know..Because
I think when we love someone and we know that he/she already have relationship
with other people, we just let it go....Don't play with fire..I don’t know,
maybe I never had situation like this before...That's why I think it's
nuts....
So I asked him, does he love his GF in Bali..He said yes..But he's also in
love with his GF in Jakarta. I asked him again, what makes him fall in love
with his new GF, he said he can not found the tense from his GF in Bali that he
found in her new GF..(I can not say anything about that)
I tried to consult him, till all my finger became thumbs because I type so
many words for him...Hehe...
He said he have plan to go to Jakarta to break up with her, he was afraid if
he break her up by chat, she will commit suicide..And he doesn't want her
GF in Bali to know that he's having a relationship with another woman..Because
he said her GF too fragile...He's afraid that his GF in Bali will ALSO commit
suicide...LOL, he’s ridiculous..I think woman are stronger that he think, his
new GF even never meet him before, and they had this relationship in
months...What on earth makes her commit suicide...
So he just said yes and yes to me..He will consider my advice blah blah
blah...
But on the next day..He said to me he's so exciting to come to Jakarta...I
think he didn't mean that when he said he wanted to break up with her....
Well, there are some things that we better avoid before it's too late...There
are some things that we better not knowing before it's killing us..Curiosity is
good, but we have to be wise about this...For sure...
Well, at least i try to advice him..Consult him..Whatever. The decision is on him...
