mei399's BLOG

wish I knew but sadly no-one has the answer to your question

its actually only your way of thinking.

There are sometimes when you feel everything you do goes wrong.

It is simply how you think.

If you think negatively then negative things happen.

So be POSITIVE and be CHEERFUL and tell yourself whatever you do it will work

out fine... and i'm sure you will

Let only positive thoughts come to ur mind.....

Have a great time... and do drop by my profile

I'm sorry for you, my friend!

i can feel ya

Everyone has to make a effort .. If they dont their not going to get anywhere.. Take from me I know Im a mom of five kids and I have two more kids here that arent my kids. And I have to make a effort to do anything to work to get were I want.. Im an I go to school fulltime and I been trying to finsh school for the past six years .

So just keep putting a effort to what you want out of life and in anything you do ..

I hope you get what your wanting

Just Jenny

Don't worry, sometimes people like that get punished. For example, Paris Hilton got cut out of inheriting the Hilton, as well as her father's money, for doing nothing and messing up her life. I believe that some is going to charity...

dont worry i feel exactly the same way

Most people who get what they want with no effort are usually very unhappy, and certainly never appreciate what they have. They are usually shallow people who have a wide circle of friends who are not really friends, look at some examples, Mariah carey (Head all messed up), Paris hilton (Everything messed up), Nicole richie (Head messed, and anorexic (Thats an illness and I am making no judgement on that)).

People who I know, who have a lot, have worked very hard, and although the sacrifices are not visibly seen, in the background they are enormous.

Speaking for myself, whatever I have, has been at the sacrifice of spending time with my family, working abroad etc, but it allows me to create things for my children that one day will be thiers, and if they work hard, will become even bigger and better.

Don`t concentrate too much on others, think of yourself, work hard, play hard, and focus, in time it will come.

In the meantime, strive to be happy.

that because u are not looking at the real thing, for example, i have a lot of things that a normally kid could not have, but that is because my parents work very hard to get it so if u study were does it came from, i could find the answer and if try and do the things that wealthy people do then u might be rich or better in the future.

if u dont get up and try, u would never know.

Everything is mostly luck. But you can control how much effort you put into something and how you think about things. Try to appreciate what you do have and be gratefull for it. Millions of people don't even own a computer or know how to write for example. Millions live in poverty and war zones etc. Just by being able to write a message on a computer you have what lots of people don't and would love to have. And you can do that because of the luck of your birth. That's why you are not starving in central Africa.

Also, helping others and putting your focus on people less fortunate and helping them helps a lot as well. It makes you feel very worthwhile and gratefull.

Just try your best, that's all you can do anyway.