Diaghinea's BLOG

Okey, so only God knows is we can change the world. Now, I want to talk about something else. Something that we hear almost every day and it seems to be so normal to say : "I can't control my feelings!". Is it impossible to analyse what you feel? What do you think? Is is so difficult to try to discover yourself in such a way that you can be able one day to "eliminate" your hate and to love someone without being addicted to that person?(being addicted means to feel that your life has no sense without the person you love)

Well, then let's try to analyze each question: Can we control our feelings? Are we able to control our hate or our love?

It may be as you say, DAM1494, but it may help you sometimes control your own feelings. I wasn't talking only about love, but in hate it is very important. Usually humans hate the others because they think it is a normal thing, but it isn't. To keep in mind always that feelings just have to be felt is not the case. And when talking about love, well, as far as I'm concerned I believe that we are able to realize when this happens (falling in love) and to be sure that the other person worths some real feelings. If he/she does, then we are free to feel without concern, but at the beginning some "fresh mind" is needed. That's what I think.