itpays' BLOG

Do you women pick out the men that they want or the ones they know they can tear up and chew ,spit and cough up on cue.  From both perspectives male and female what do we expect or inspect when meeting and cohabitating Are we as a society of pain seekers or have we just become less involved in what is acceptable behavior towards the treatment of a person we do not know? Do we know when our choices will be the choices that shapes our concepts, explanations, justifications so on so forth do we extend the same consideration we seek? The process or happen chance choice of mates is this the type of behavior that protects one's self from intimacy or out of bitter associations a form of torture that is felt and directed.  Are women the victims or the instagating componet? 

 I have been exposed to women that seek a push painoption for sabatage that somehow comforts their past and present reactions and responses to relationship hot buttons that can derail into a chocolate......

have you or anyone you know been paid by rich ptc?

or boola or cashmails?

I am always with question or observation of something I have encountered in my roll.  I am an avid rollerblader living in Az I catch more heat from the peanut gallery anyone with an opinion. Then I  do from the radiating evil ball in the sky known to some as the sun.  I rarley witness other bladers when I do I am in shock anyone blade around these parts?

 Seems that some people take offense to what other people do even when totally seperate and without any effect in their lifes.  For example when blading about drivers that are aloof and one way lookers get so pissy that they have to wait to go or turn as you are crossing in the crosswalk.  The feeling of the obligated wave or the thank you for following the traffic laws is there or seems to be.  I like playing this gameand trying to attract a smile from any passers if eye contact no matter how brief is present.  Do you smile at the drivers, passangers,......

Why is it women want the men that do not want them?  Are women really wanting relationships or just relations when they want more than the battery powered options offer?  Could it be they seek trouble to have a problem to stay miserable over or do they really want that great guy that never had enough confidence to approach these for sure let downs? Are men blame targets or the ready made escape goats?

Women want to be wanted or just want to want for some hope they will abuse and treat poorly till the willing and feeling is gone never to be the same.  The love goes to loathing and the desire turns to sneers with no more happy occasions to cheer with just the prolonging of a dead end relationship.