Principle 1:
Don’t Criticize ,condemn or complain:
When dealing with people , let us remember we are not dealing with creatures of logic. We are dealing with creatures of emotion, creatures bristling with prejudices and motivated by pride and vanity.
Bitter Criticism cause the sensitive Thomas Hardy, of the finest novelists ever to enrich English literature, to give up forever the writing of fiction. Criticism drove Thomas Chatteron , the English priest, to sucide.
Benjamin Franklin , tactless in his youth, became so diplomatic, so adroit at handling people, that he was made American Ambassador to France.
The Secret of his success is “ I will speak of no man…. And speak all the good I know of everybody.”
Any fool can criticize , condemn ,and complain – and most fools do.
But it takes character and self control to be understanding and forgiving.
“ A great man shows his greatness By the way......