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Do you want to be Happy or Miserable?
Size: Large, Medium, Small Wed Jun 25, 08 07:03 AM | Category: psycology
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Sometimes we are so occupied with our daily routine in life that we forget that "we" are the most important element of our existence. We need to be nourished in order to grow.

When we look at the people around us, we most likely find that most people's favorite pastime is to complain.

 

 

 

And just why do we complain anyway?

 

Is it because we need something? 

 

Is it that we lack something? 

 

Is it that we need or want sympathy? 

 

Is it because we need attention? 

 

Is it just that we just like to complain; or is it that we just like to hear ourselves talk? 

 

 Is it becoming a pattern with you?

 

These are some of the most common elements that describe our problem.

I generated a list that can either make us happy, or it can make us miserable. Sometimes we need to draw the line for ourselves, and we are the only ones who can do that!

   

Be Happy!

 

 

  1. Just simply be happy and content with yourself, and who you are.
  2. Love yourself.
  3. Accept yourself for who you are, and as you are.
  4. Life is simple, stop trying to complicate it.
  5. Life is about understanding. The lessons and experiences you have are only for your own growth and for better soul awareness.
  6. Discover who you are, and your soul, and get acquainted with that.
  7. Make some time for yourself every day.
  8. Learn to listen.
  9. Pay attention to your child(ren), help your elders, and you will feel fulfilled.
  10. Be good to yourself.
  11. Accept humiliation as part of your growth.
  12. Always have peace of mind. It's not easy, but try to create it.

 

 

Life isn't what challenges us, "we" challenge "ourselves".

 

 

Be Miserable!

 

  1. Do live for other people and feel miserable.
  2. Do look to others for support, become dependent on others.
  3. Do live up to a fake image that is not you.
  4. Do take care of everyone before yourself.
  5. Do always negate yourself.
  6. Do love others before loving yourself.
  7. Do live according to traditions just to please others or do things that do not fit in with your own philosophy in life.
  8. Do live other people's life karma who they are. That including your family. Live your own life karma.
  9. Become greedy, jealous, stubborn, or too sensitive to accept criticism.
  10. Do allow your ego and pride to take over your life.

 

 

 

Life is simple so let's stop complicating it.

Choices are out there. It is up to you to choose your own direction in life. It is very important to realize that we hold our own destiny in life, and no one else's. It is also very important to understand your own rights, because you do have FREE WILL. Even the GOD that you believe in respects your Free Will because you are part of this GOD and that energy is in us always. If your GOD does not respect that, then it becomes a contradiction and goes against all that's out there in all religions. This "great energy force" is all about love, forgiveness and compassion, and not anything else.

 


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monti_84 Wed Jun 25, 08 03:42 PM

Exactly...as I say "Happiness is a decision"

"To define is to limit" Oscar Wilde
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totalprick Wed Jun 25, 08 08:34 PM

Wow. So every rape victim ever CHOSE to be raped, by answering negatively when asked for sex. And gunshot wounds are caused by one's own negative thought patterns, not crazy motherfuckers given the right to bear arms.

When one of you have to bury your own child, remember; you brought it on yourself by being too negative, right?

Wrong. Entirely wrong. This is the most cowardly, vain and selfish excuse for a philosophy in history. The cattle who believe it deserve the slaughterhouse it will send them to.

Oh, right, you people like to pretend no one ever got raped, killed, or abused.

"Accept yourself as you are, for who you are." Hate to tell you, that's EXACTLY what serial killers do right before becoming serial killers. They accept the predatory nature of the higher primate.

The Heretic King
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sv_iv (Svetlana) Thu Jun 26, 08 05:49 PM

Before I start my reply to your comment, I want to reveal to you a secret. This post was written specially for you. About you I was thinking writing it. And I decided to wait and see: will you find it or not. As I know, you are not commenting so many posts. You like to TALK not to LISTEN. And, in case you find it, it can prove that Law of attraction is working. You did. This was a post for you and you were attracted to it. I was reading your posts for a while, but didn’t leave comments for to have a clean experiment. For not to influence you in coming to my blog. Not to remind about myself. Waiting to see, if you will come. In the same way, good things and happiness are attracted to people who love themselves and are positive and bad things are attracted to people who don’t. I want to give you an advice, my dear, don’t judge people using only your imagination. Who told you I didn’t bury a child? I did. I lost my first child. Who told you I don’t know anything about rape? My sister was raped. Why you think about yourself as about only one victim of this world? Who told that only you are experiencing difficulties in this life? A lot of people do. I don’t believe there is a family in this world which didn’t have at least a tragedy.

If you want to change the world, start by changing yourself
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sv_iv (Svetlana) Thu Jun 26, 08 05:49 PM

Why you don’t read carefully the text and think a bit before answering? Is a serial killer happy? Does he love himself? No. He hates himself deep in his soul as are you doing with yourself. But he doesn’t want to recognise this. He is looking around who is guilty? And decides that everyone. Everyone deserves to die, because he is not good enough to love himself. Lets look at you and your posts. In which way you see yourself better than a serial killer? You are ready to kill everyone, who by your opinion, doesn’t live a right life. Do you imagine yourself a messiah? A Superman? You tell us that you are a million times more cleaver than any leader of the country? Why you are not the leader in this case? Why people don’t follow you? Because you hate yourself and everyone around you feels this. You are looking around only to find dirty things and to prove that world is as bad as you wish to see it. Your way of thinking is very simple: Yes I am bad and I don’t like it, but you ALL are worse than me and you deserve to pay for my miserable life. Why you came to the blog and post all this nonsense? Is this because everyone around is sick to listen all this bullshit? You want to show everyone that you are intelligent and read a lot. Look around…. On this blog are a lot of cleaver and kind people. Intelligence is not putting people down, but helping them to grow to your level. Most of us came to the blog to make friends and to learn something. I don’t deny that you are cleaver, but you are not the cleverest person in the world. And, for sure, you are not the kindest one. You make a lot of noise about war. What do you know in Canada about war?

If you want to change the world, start by changing yourself
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sv_iv (Svetlana) Thu Jun 26, 08 05:50 PM

I am from Moldova myself and I was raised with stories about WW II told by my grandparents and my parents. I witnessed civil war in my country not so many years ago. I should scream about it. But I don’t. Why? What it can change if I do? What’s the reason to blame you, for example, for war in my country? Did you do something for it? Or why you didn’t do to stop it? You think we would listen you that time, when brother hated brother for different belief?

And I don’t say you are guilty about it. It easy to judge when you are far from conflict. I think that we had war because we all didn’t respect ourselves as people and nation.

If you want to change the world, start by changing yourself
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sv_iv (Svetlana) Thu Jun 26, 08 05:51 PM

When I say that loving ourselves we make as happy, did I say that for this we have to look in the mirror and smile as idiots, as was your idea in one of your posts. Loving myself, I want balance and harmony in my life. For this I need, first of all, to have happy people around me. I am doing everything to help these people. But I leave them the free will to accept or to reject my help and love. You cannot make one person happy directing a gun to his heart and telling: Be happy or die, because I want you to be happy. This is everyone’s free will to live a happy life or a miserable one. It is a lot easier to complain and to find shit in everything and everybody than to work for your happiness. Yes! It is work and is not easy work. It is a lot harder than that “work” that you are doing at moment.

If you want to change the world, start by changing yourself
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pronaholtz Sat Jul 5, 08 11:10 AM

i have forget to vote this post.

i vote now .

to complete the whole , a say / complain is time lost .

always stand up and go forwart , advance and not retreat .

i can say better .

thank's for this share to .

We can feel that we cannot see .

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